Author Archives: Love Change Grow

Change Happens Revisited

Change happens. It’s the only constant… take comfort in it. Recognizing and understanding its pattern and process can be enlightening (your choice). Change happens both in and at the level of patterns. And also, at the level of decisions. Big changes are opportunities in desperate times. Though you have to look at it right. TheContinue reading “Change Happens Revisited”

Six Stages of Relationships

There are six stages of development in long-term/lifetime relationships. Stages are the predominant theme, but there are flashes of experience from other stages. 1. The romantic and exciting chemistry. The reactions of something new. Two ideas you might find interesting are the “dopamine theory” and Dorothy Tennov’s concept of “limerence.” 2. The rub (i.e., polarityContinue reading “Six Stages of Relationships”

Opportunity In Crisis

A brief discussion that U/We are the emergency. Failures, setbacks and challenges are all opportunities to learn and grow. The secret is in the questions. First are the basic questions of “what, when, where, how and why.” These are the questions that sort out what has happened in the past and presents the current situation.Continue reading “Opportunity In Crisis”

Tripartite Existence

A brief discussion of Karma, Hermetic Principles and Being. Karma: Understanding the process. 1) Karma happens “to” a person (a victim mindset). 2) Karma happens “for” a person (a challenge and/or opportunity). 3) Karma happens “by” a person (through learning and doing, i.e. the opportunity to change). 4) Karma happens “through” a person (by theirContinue reading “Tripartite Existence”

Interacting with a Pro

The past week had an opportunity to share “how to get your needs addressed during medication appointments.” I’ve frequently consulted with doctors and advocated for clients at their medication appointments. This applies to medications, any type of therapy or interventions via a professional. Medications to take (or not) The issue with taking any type ofContinue reading “Interacting with a Pro”