A discussion of wounds, healing and resilience during times of crisis. Wounds can be our deepest pain and fear, yet maybe the source of our greatest strengths. Wounds provide an opportunity to let the light in. But wounds have two faces: a light face and a dark face. Wounds can be the source of shadowContinue reading “Wounds Are Where Light Comes”
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The Heart of Darkness
A brief reminder that within the dark, there is light. In the heart of darkness, fear doesn’t exist. It only exists in “your” definition of a situation. Look into the dark… for the light. Don’t look at the dark (can’t see anything anyway). But look (investigate) the dark for the light. What does this reveal?Continue reading “The Heart of Darkness”
Into The Mystic
“Gonna leave this broke down palace…” Wherever you look, crisis of things collapsing, strange behaviors and glitches. It is time to focus inward. Establishing a calm center in the “I” of the hurricane. If attention is on the storm, the normal reaction is to freeze, fight or flee. Which results in being sucked in andContinue reading “Into The Mystic”
Crisis… a Detour to Yourself
A brief discussion that crisis is more than just an event. It is a situational opportunity. Crisis stages are like the stages of grief. The grief process of feeling feelings and the thinking about thoughts. Specifically examining your thoughts of what the hell, what was this, and what can I do? Which is the opportunityContinue reading “Crisis… a Detour to Yourself”
The Opportunity of Grace
Grace Matters It is not a matter of what happens. It matters how you respond. Karma is not about what happens TO you. But is FOR you… an opportunity to learn and change. Karma changes THROUGH you… BY you. Problems are only opportunities. All that is required… is Grace. What is grace and how doesContinue reading “The Opportunity of Grace”
The Strategy of Equanimity
Brief thoughts on the calmness of being while the storms rage. Equanimity (being calm) is straightforward, but how do you get there? Lessons from the rabbit holes of Vipassana meditation, the wrathful and peaceful deities (found in the Tibetan Book of the Dead, Evan-Wentz). And the psychology of focused attention and hypnosis. In Vipassana meditation,Continue reading “The Strategy of Equanimity”
Lightening a Heavy Load
There are times one must endure something hard and heavy. It’s an opportunity to learn effortless lightening; how? Be loving, compassionate, and graceful. Joy lifts! Burdens become effortless and full of accomplishment. Blessings, Tim
Just Be!
Life does not concern itself. But why do we? Remember, you are already perfect. Grow into it. Set your roots deep and stretch for the sun. Be grateful for the storms and the seasons as they too shall pass and come around again. Learn from the birds and the bees; the opportunity to share andContinue reading “Just Be!”
The Joy of the Beast, The Being and Beyond
A brief discussion of the tri-part of us. We are part beast (subconscious and unaware), a victim responding to the environment with limited awareness. We are part being, who consciously interacts within the environment. Though only exists in the interaction. Which is a fleeting occurrence of the act and action. Being is transient, yet withoutContinue reading “The Joy of the Beast, The Being and Beyond”
Update! “The Way of Parenting” is up with working links.
Update! Past Sunday’s post, on August 3, 2025. “Love Change Grow: The Way of Parenting” had bugs with links not working…fix’d. This is a brief handbook as a post. Links are for quick navigation. It’s free, no subscription nor paywall required. If inclined share with others. Sharing is the “new wealth” https://lovechangegrow.com/what-if-love-is-the-new-money/ Thank You andContinue reading “Update! “The Way of Parenting” is up with working links.”